almost a month now
and today it dawned on me:
my current recovery is not JUST from addiction but is HUMAN recovery
rediscovering what it means
to be
human again
how to exist
and
function in the world
exploring the practices
and behaviors
that truly
fufill me
this thought
suddenly occured to me
as i laid down
in the
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(something i'd not done
in far, far too long)
and stared up
at the sky
watching the clouds
s l o w l y
roll by
before doing this
a small part of myself
lamented my phone being dead
and told myself
i'd be bored for
the next hour
but then
i noticed
the lush
green
grass
looked quite inviting
and was struck
by an urge to lay down
letting my mind
w~a~n~d~e~r
with this clouds
then
the cheap notebook i brought
called out
and i thought to myself
'this is what it means to be human again'
for the past fifteen (!) years
since i have owned
a smartphone
(and really before that
with my first laptop)
i've been enthralled
with the
intoxicating ability
to access any content
instantly
i've never had any
qualms with piracy
so i was inundated with a
veritable torrent
(pun, most definitely intended)
of whatever i wanted
whenever i wanted
but
what seemed like
an incredible boon
in time, instead,
became a bane
with all this
unfettered access
i became
addicted
to downloading
EVERYTHING
i'd stay up for hours
searching for
obscure torrents
and anticipating
their completion
only to barely
glance at the content
and move on to the next
there would be SO many
books, movies/shows, games, music
that my ocd would kick in
and i would spend
HOURS
culling and curating
all this content
only to have it largely untouched
in a word it was
M A D N E S S
it dawned on me
several times
but inevitably
my solution would always be
to cull
to curate
which would lead to enormous amounts
of analysis paralysis
too many things i 'needed'
that i couldn't let go of
just in case
basically
i became a digital hoarder
the height of this furvor
was about 5 years ago
since then
i have largely scaled my
consumption
waaay back
however
even until now
some of the same habits
persist to
a lesser degree
i limit my aquisition of content
but still have periods
where i have to cull and curate
or sometimes purge completely
i'm better at utilizing
the content i do have
but there still is
a higher
signal to noise ratio
than i am comfortable with
however
the last few months
and especially the last month
has been a huge sea change
by necessity
my
engagement with the ephemeral
intangible
difital
has decreased
dramatically
while my engagement
wtih the physical
tangible
material
has increased
in equal proportion
bringing about my current understanding
and
renewed sense of what it means
to be human
to be an individual interacting with the world
more intimately
more authentically
sobriety has been integral
to rediscovering the world
and my place in it
but the REAL recovery
is
becoming re-intergrated back into the world
on a fundamental
direct relationship
and that
is
true recovery
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