Comment by 👻 darkghost

Re: "Approaching dystopia. How did we get here?"
In: s/privacy

Yes. Keep engaged with the platform so we can shove more ads into your eyeballs. Rage is engaging.

👻 darkghost

Dec 02 · 3 weeks ago

7 Later Comments ↓

🦔 bsj38381 · Dec 03 at 11:54:

I never thought that clickbait would then mutate into ragebait of any kind on the internet. Man I wish ragebait to dissapear honestly.

👻 darkghost · Dec 03 at 13:56:

Culturally, the society needs to decide that it is eating their time and energy and fundamentally isn't worth their attention. And while I'm dreaming, I'd like a pretty pink pony to take me to the marshmallow kingdom.

🚀 stack · Dec 03 at 14:57:

Yes, the society is doubling down.

☕️ tenno-seremel · Dec 04 at 07:23:

@jprjr Interesting, considering we do say “so and so died” here, nobody says “X passed away” except in media. This is outside of USA, though. And I can speak only for what I heard and said myself, of course.

👻 darkghost · Dec 04 at 10:39:

I fortunately have limited experience with this. But the worst incident was also with all the subtly of an atom bomb. A close friend lost their teenager in a car accident. I was told by my friend via text "<child's name> died today" as a response to some inane thing I had sent.

🎮 jprjr · Dec 04 at 13:13:

In my experience it tends to vary based on who's delivering the news and who they're delivering it too.

Like if I'm telling people about my pet dying - I'm using terms like passed away, or we lost them, etc. If some random animal is hit by a car - it died.

If someone famous dies that I don't have any real connection to - I'm just going to say they died. But if it makes the news or obits etc, those are probably going to say passed away if it wasn't a surprise, or they'll probably just say "so and so was found dead" this morning if it is a surprise.

But I've also gotten a "my husband died today" text from a friend.

I guess it's kind of all over the place

👻 darkghost · Dec 04 at 13:51:

Each person manages such news different ways. I mean sugar coating it won't lessen it's impact. I had a lot to parse from such a simple statement because of the sheer magnitude of such news and things like "I'm dying" as a response to something hilarious or embarrassing.

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Approaching dystopia. How did we get here? — I miss the days where people didn’t self-censor on the internet out of fear they were being watched, where anonymity (even if only perceived) was sacrosanct. I miss public forums where most people followed the golden rule, but bad people could still be bad because platforms only banned content that actually broke the law. It was the public square. Today I see ads everywhere. Bloat everywhere. Proprietary software (often spyware) everywhere. This...

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